Tribadism refers to sexual activity where one person rubs their genitals against another person’s body to produce sexual pleasure. The action most commonly involves pressing the vulva against a partner’s vulva, thigh, abdomen, or other body areas, but the specific movements and positions vary widely.

Terminology and common names

This practice is often associated with women who have sex with women and is sometimes described in relation to lesbian sexual activity, though people of different gender identities may engage in similar contact. Popular informal names include “scissoring,” “tribbing,” and “tribading.” In particular, “scissoring” is used to describe a distinctive sex position in which partners cross or intertwine their legs so their pelvic regions meet and move together.

How it is practiced

Techniques range from gentle, sustained pressure to more vigorous rubbing or grinding. Partners may face each other, lie side by side, or adopt positions that provide better control of movement and comfort. Some people combine genital-to-genital contact with manual or oral stimulation, use of pillows for support, or sex toys, depending on preference and consent.

Health and safety considerations

Because tribadism can involve direct skin-to-skin and mucous membrane contact, it can carry risks for transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) when infectious fluids or sores are present. Barriers such as dental dams or cut-open condoms can reduce direct contact when desired. Good communication, mutual consent, and awareness of each partner’s sexual health are important for reducing risk and ensuring a positive experience.

Social and cultural notes

Descriptions of tribadism appear in historical sources and modern media, sometimes framed inaccurately or sensationally. While some portrayals emphasize certain positions like scissoring, many people who engage in genital rubbing report that their experiences are more diverse than a single iconic posture. Attitudes toward the practice vary across communities and individuals, shaped by personal preference, cultural norms, and levels of sexual education.

  • Genital-to-genital contact
  • Non-penetrative sexual activity
  • Mutual masturbation and manual stimulation