The Love Dare is a popular non-fiction Christian book by filmmakers Alex and Stephen Kendrick designed to strengthen marital relationships through a structured 40-day program. Written for couples and individuals who want to practice intentional, faith-centered love, the book presents short daily exercises intended to change attitudes and behaviors over time.
Format and content
The work is organized into forty entries, one for each day. Each entry typically includes a related passage of Scripture, a concise statement of principle, a practical "dare" or action to perform that day, and space for personal notes or journaling. The format encourages daily reflection and application rather than abstract instruction, blending devotional reading with behavioral challenges.
History and reception
Published by the Kendrick brothers, who are also known for their involvement in faith-based filmmaking, the book gained broad public attention after being prominently featured in the 2008 movie Fireproof. It became a commercial success, selling over one million copies and appearing on best-seller lists, including the New York Times and a placement on the USA Today list.
Uses and impact
Beyond individual reading, The Love Dare has been adopted by church small groups, marriage ministries, and counselors as a practical tool for couples in a variety of situations: newlyweds seeking strong habits, partners repairing trust, or spouses committed to daily acts of love. Its simple, action-oriented style makes it suitable for people who prefer hands-on, step-by-step approaches rather than long theological treatises.
Notable distinctions and criticisms
The book is explicitly Christian and frames its advice within Christian Scripture and theology; readers seeking secular or clinically oriented marriage therapy may find its emphasis on faith prescriptive. Supporters praise its accessibility and concrete tasks, while critics argue that some relational problems require professional counseling beyond what a devotional challenge can provide.