Theresa Elizabeth "Teri" Polo (born June 1, 1969) is an American actress whose work spans film and television. She gained widespread recognition for portraying Pam Byrnes‑Focker in the comedy film series that began with Meet the Parents. Over several decades she has moved between comic and dramatic roles, becoming a familiar face in mainstream American entertainment.

Career overview

Polo's career includes leading and supporting roles in both movies and TV series. While the Meet the Parents films brought her the most visible film exposure, she has also headlined television projects and recurring series roles. Her screen persona is often warm, grounded and adaptable, allowing her to play romantic leads, family figures and professional characters with equal ease.

Notable roles and highlights

Her best known film work is the Pam Byrnes‑Focker character in the Meet the Parents trilogy: Meet the Parents (2000), Meet the Fockers (2004) and Little Fockers (2010). In television she starred in the sitcom I'm with Her (2003–2004), portrayed Helen Santos on The West Wing (2005–2006), and is widely recognized for her role as police officer Stef Adams Foster on the family drama The Fosters (2013–2018).

Acting style and reception

Polo's performances tend to emphasize emotional clarity and relatability. In comedies she balances timing and sincerity, while in dramas she brings a calm, authoritative presence. Critics and audiences have praised her ability to anchor ensemble casts and to make recurring television characters feel lived‑in over multiple seasons.

Selected credits

  • Meet the Parents (film series) — Pam Byrnes‑Focker (Meet the Parents, Meet the Fockers, Little Fockers)
  • I'm with Her (sitcom, 2003–2004)
  • The West Wing (recurring role, 2005–2006)
  • The Fosters (ABC Family/Freeform drama, 2013–2018)

Beyond these headline parts, Polo has appeared in a range of guest spots, TV movies and independent projects that demonstrate her versatility. She remains active in film and television and is often cited as an actor who successfully bridges mainstream comedy and serialized drama.

As a public figure, Polo is recognized primarily for family‑oriented and dramatic roles that emphasize relationships and moral dilemmas. Her career offers an example of steady work across mediums, with a handful of signature roles that define her public image.